I usually fight with words. Fortunately, I don't have personal experience with domestic violence. While searching my brain for a personal story to tell involving domestic violence, there is only one that comes to mind, and even it was not necessarily domestic violence, but the potential for it. And it's not my story to tell. It (almost) happened to a friend. And I'm happy to say that she did not marry him in the end.
When I wrote about domestic violence last December, many of my regular readers did not read those posts. Hopefully, this means that domestic violence is not something you have any experience with.
Finding Strength to Report
For those who do live with violence or even the threat of violence from a supposed loved one it's degrading, devastating, depressing and dangerous. For many living with this secret, one of the hardest things they will ever have to do is pick up the phone and call the police on a spouse or significant other.
And yet, many will find the strength to call and report an assault. Some of those will later recant their stories and refuse to testify against their abusers, but some will keep that ire burning, still feeling the sting from the smack dealt to them from some who's supposed to be a protector and supporter. Those people will be willing to testify against their spouses/partners/significant others and aid the prosecution as best they can. Then, hopefully, those people can move on with their lives.
No Aid Available
Well, what if no one could afford to prosecute such cases? What if the city decided to repeal the law making domestic violence a crime? What if the county refused to prosecute these misdemeanors? What would be the point of calling the police? Who would help those in need?
Well, that's exactly what Topeka, Kansas, did. In an attempt to cut budgetary costs, the city government repealed a municipal law making domestic violence a misdemeanor. Back in September the Shawnee County District Attorney stopped prosecuting domestic violence cases due to budget cuts. The city says this is an attempt to get the district attorney to begin prosecuting these cases again. And it worked too.
Reckless Abandon
The way I see it, this is an awfully reckless move on the part of the county and city. If the county and city refused to prosecute misdemeanor domestic violence cases, then it would have been open season for abusers in Topeka. Thankfully, the Shawnee County DA, Chad Taylor, reluctantly agreed to begin prosecuting the domestic violence cases even though they have very few resources and are lacking in staff.
Of course, the dropped cases would have applied only to misdemeanor charges, not felonies. If a domestic violence case had escalated to a felony, let's say murder, then that case would have been prosecuted by the district attorney. Unchecked, unstopped, unprosecuted domestic violence could very well lead to murder, of either the abused or the abuser. And the authorities sure as hell will prosecute an abused spouse/significant other who kills her/his abuser. This is not a situation to take lightly.
Threatening the safety of its citizens to force the hand of the county district attorney's office is heartless and treacherous. I understand that everyone {individuals, small businesses, municipal, county, state and federal government agencies} is struggling to make ends meet, with the exception of the elite top 1% of our country, but taking it out on domestic violence victims is not OK.
The Scoop
Topeka, figure it out. While the Shawnee County DA has taken on these cases once again, there remains a budget issue. This could be a nightmare, both figuratively and literally, for citizens, the city and the county. Cut from an area of the budget that will not affect such a vulnerable, usually mute, segment of the community; perhaps a cut to your own salaries is in order, City of Topeka officials. Priorities must be set; the safety of people must be placed over other city projects. Over and out...
Anna
Indisputable evidence that women remain second-class citizens in the eyes of the law. Not that women are the only victims of domestic violence, but they certainly comprise the preponderance of the victims. "Women's problems" are regrettably all too often not understood to be everyone's problems. The struggle continues.
Posted by: Casey | Thursday, October 20, 2011 at 11:10 AM
I've worked as a therapist at a large mental health facility in Kansas. As a young intern, the histories of our clients were a shock to me. I was going to what I thought was another conservative, but progressive Midwestern state. I had to learn about my own values, and staying objective while working with severely depressed & suicidal women in a residential facility; many of whom had very long, complex survivor histories to deal with in therapy. These women had not only personally been victims of domestic violence, but as witnesses of it against their mothers, aunts, sisters and others. It seemed accepted as common practice by many in their communities. The rage and anger that pervaded breakthrough moments in the safety of the therapy setting would make those in Topeka shudder and rethink that budget cutting measure. To send that kind of message to single this crime out to save money is not only ridiculous, it's dangerous. Former Kansas Governor Sibelius is now in a Cabinet position as Secretary of Health and Welfare to set this right. I hope she uses her influence to be pro-active about justice. Amen.
Posted by: muzikjam | Thursday, October 20, 2011 at 05:53 PM